I am basically very peace person however, I could be the strongest woman in the world once something I cannot tolerate comes to my sons or my best friends, I become the fighter towards anything anyone. When I had been living in the US. I experienced some racism against Asian. Since I was very young back then and had so much energy than now 50 years old… I fought towards whatever made me mad, even to some old man with very poor my English😛 I could not or I didn’t know how to ignore / pretend not to see it to avoid what doesn’t create anything productive. Well, I will say, that was how I am then and as I got those experiences, now I know better to live in peace.
I had been running the kids clothing company over 20 years which made me very stronger, I needed to be to protect the company and staffs. That was so stressful for me who is basically peaceful person. I got my older son when 27, and the little one when 36. So, from 36-47 years old, those days were the best and busiest time for me. Working full time and house keeping, raising sons( actually this is the happy part.) One day one friend told me that whenever She found me, I am riding the bicycle very fast like 100 km/ hour. wahahaha… I needed to be that way because I had been doing what I could possibly do on the day which is only 24 hours, so I couldn’t waste every seconds.
SO, I quite the last job on last March, and staying home since then, doing what I have been eager to do however couldn’t since no time. I am trying to do what have been in my mind for the last , say 20 years. Feeling so great. I didn’t know there is this kind of way of living. Doing what I need or want to do without rushing. To me very luxury time. But honestly, I am feeling I deserve it sine I had been working and mothering every single day with my best for last 25 years. So, I consider this as my gift from some kind of god.( I don’t have any particular religion. BTW, I have worked for the company related to 7 habits, that is basically the same as below, Do whatever is goon, Don’t whatever is not Good, Just proceed once you decided without any hesitation. I think that is all.
I got this phrase below from my friend’s FB, seems she had got from some other friend of her. I totally agree those so, please share with anyone if you also agree with it.
I’m sick of covid-19. I’m sick of black vs. white. I’m sick of Democrats vs. Republicans. I’m sick of gay vs straight. I’m sick of Christians vs Other Beliefs. Vegans vs farmers.I’m REALLY sick of the pathetic media. I’m sick of no one being allowed to think what they want & feel how they feel without it offending someone. I am sick of people blaming the whole world for the sins of a few. Just treat everyone the way you want to be treated.Give peace a chance.We’re one race—the human race.You support whichever political party you want, It’s your choice. Just don’t thrust your choices on me. You want to believe in God/ Bhudda/ Allah? You want to believe in magical creatures that fly around & sprinkle fairy dust to make life better? Okay, believe that.Having our own minds is what makes us all individual and valued I don’t have to agree with everything you believe to be a decent human being & your friend.I respect and accept you as you are, please respond in kind.Copy and paste if you want to